Thursday, January 23, 2014

Eating, Reading, and Sharing Inspiration!

re·fresh·ing
riˈfreSHiNG/
adjective
  1. 1.
    serving to refresh or reinvigorate someone.

I am more refreshed than ever! I realize that in addition to creating inspiration, I have to consume it. As I eat more raw veggies and eat more vegetables overall, my moods have truly been affected--in a positive way.

With this blog, my greatest hope is that you are motivated through what has been said and shared. Whenever you are down, whenever you feel uninspired, I strongly encourage you to visit this page and read the 102 interviews of people who refused to give up.

I had my reasons for selecting the people featured on this blog. I didn't want to include just ANYONE. I chose to interview people who have substance to what they had to say. They needed to be able to provide upliftment to the reader. <--- If that's even a word. Anyone that reads their post must feel the need to continue on and never give up.

I encourage you to share this blog with a friend or family member. Whether you share a link or your personal favorite post, spread the word. We all know someone who could use an extra dose of wisdom, a pat on the back, a nudge, and shove, and even tough love.

Read. Share. Read again.


Thursday, January 2, 2014

Feature #102: Fallon Carter, Owner

 
 
Name: Fallon Carter

Current Job Position Title: Owner

Company Name: Fallon Carter Weddings

Contact Information: 347.260.5654; fallon@falloncarterweddings.com

Special skills: Managing Engaged Women and all of the emotions that come with them!
Describe your job story:
I graduated from Clark Atlanta University with a degree in Political Science. After graduation, my mission was to attend law school and live my "dream."  I got a job at an Israeli Aerospace company to help save for Law School and was pretty much set.  All was well- I had my own place, I rode my bike to work, went to political happy hours and I figured this was going to be my life.  A good friend of mine invited me to her sisters wedding in Paris, France and that is when everything changed.  Upon arriving in Paris- we were welcomed with the awful news that the brides dress was destroyed, along with all the bridesmaids dress, and there were last minute details that still needed to be handled- in less than 1 week. Fast forward to wedding day...I am standing on a terrace in France, fireworks above and I am bustling the bride into her dress and prepping her for her entrance- everything made sense at that moment.  I had never felt happier than I did at the moment.   So, I got back to the states- I quit my job, had some business cards made, packed everything up, and moved to NYC with $700 in my pocket and no idea about what came next... 
 
What did you want to be when you were a child/ teenager?
Lawyer/Politician

Are doing your dream job?
I now have the dream job that I didn't know I wanted.

What do you like MOST about what you do? What do you like the LEAST?  
Most- I get to experience the energy of love on a daily basis. Its absolutely amazing to be in a room with 2 people so stupid in love with each other- you cant help but smile and enjoy it.  Least would have to be seeing couples focusing so much on the cost and the negative aspects of planning a wedding.  Planning doesn't have to be stressful- its all about your perspective.  You can have an amazing wedding with ANY budget... its all about how you look at it.

Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
Being a celebrity event planner, traveling for destination weddings, Giving bridal and event advice on television, writing books and planning my own wedding (which will be small)!

Are you happy with where you are in life?
Eh, In theory. When I look back to where I was- Yes, I am VERY HAPPY and I know that I am extremely blessed to be living my dream....but I am just now realizing that I can have, do, and be anything and that I am more powerful than I imagined.  So I am happy with where I am...but I will be happier when I get to where I am going.

What more do you want to do with your life?
I would love to help others realize their full potential and that your thoughts become things- so think wisely.

What drives/motivates you?
All the people that told me I couldn't and that I would never.  Their voices ring so clear in my mind sometimes- Its as if I have my own theme music.

What else do you do?
I am also the co-founder of an organization called "After I Do."  We help engaged couples focus on more than just their wedding day.  We host events that discuss topics such as financial planning, raising children, and sex after marriage.  There are so many resources available on planning a wedding- but when it comes to planning a marriage *crickets* and we wonder why the divorce rate is so high- couples are prepared for one day- but not forever.

What is your advice to those who are seeking employment and have no hope?
If you are looking for a job or want to start your own business- write down what you want. Focus your attention on it and Thank God for it as if you received the offer letter or the first client that day.  Focus only on the positive and be in a place of happiness. The thoughts of lack and that it wont happen- will keep you in that place! Trust your God and have unwavering faith!  
 

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED: 101 Careers


I Can. I Will. I Am has featured 101 CAREERS! 12, 953 pageviews and counting!
                                      
In 2011, I started this blog with the intent to motivate the downtrodden and depressed. This blog was created to lift your spirits, especially if you're looking for a job or trying to find a career. Too often, we get caught up in our own hardships and forget that there are others who are going through the same--if not worst--situations. You are not alone.

Stay motivated! 2014's almost here. You hold the key to your PRESENT.


Check out all 101 young professionals featured in this blog. There isn't just ONE way to find a career or self-identity. You'll find that there are countless routes, including your own.

Sunday, December 29, 2013

Feature #101: Tamika Smith, Creative Director & Brand Stylist


Name: Tamika Smith

Current Job Position Title: Creative Director and Brand Stylist

Company Name: JOUJOU Creative

Contact Information: http://joujoucreative.com

Special skills: Graphic/Web Design, Character Illustrations and Photography

Describe your job story:
I run a small design studio and I design for nonprofits and small businesses. I launched the studio after my position was eliminated at my previous employer. I found myself unemployed after 8 years and didn't know what I was going to do. After a lot of stressing I realized I could use my skills to continue my career and follow my dreams. It can still be scary at times, but well worth it! 

What did you want to be when you were a child/ teenager? A teacher

Are doing your dream job?
Partially. I dream of being a successful photographer and I'm not quite there yet!

What do you like MOST about what you do? What do you like the LEAST?
What I like most is the freedom to be creative and express myself. What I like least is people who take my generosity and talents for granted. 

Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
In the next 5 years I would like to see myself working as a lifestyle and portrait photographer with some of my images published.

Are you happy with where you are in life?
To an extent. I always think that I can do better and that motivates me. 

What more do you want to do with your life?
I would like to travel and take my daughter to different parts of the world. I would also like to shoot for some magazines too before its all said and done. I want to leave a legacy for her.

What drives/motivates you? Knowing that I can do better and better is a big motivator. Also looking at what other creatives are doing is both inspiring and motivating.

What else do you do?
I also design for an apparel line for children. The line is geared towards educating youth and starting a dialogue through the designs.

What is your advice to those who are seeking employment and have no hope?
There is always hope and to never give up. Like I stated previously, I found myself unemployed after 8 years and felt lost. I decided to take that opportunity and pursue my passion, my dream job. There is opportunity in every situation. It's all about how you view it and use it!


Feature #100: Corey "Tall Boy" Sanders, On Air Personality...


Name: Corey "Tall Boy" Sanders

Current Job Position Title: On Air Personality Majic 107.5/97.5; Promotions Coordinator for Radio One Atlanta (Hot 107.9 Praise 102.5 Majic 107.5/97.5); Creator of www.tallboy.us

Company Name: Radio One & Tall Boy Enterprises

Contact Information: 404-604-9540 tallboy@tallboy.us

Special skills: Event Emcee, Content Creator/Videography Brand Mananagement

Describe your job story: 
I was playing professional basketball in Urugray and I asked my agent could he help me get endorsement deals. (I wanted to be the "Dude your Getting a Dell" guy or the "All State" guy). He told me I wasn't in the NBA so it would never happen. At the end of the season I told him I wasn't returning to play ball professionally and I would be pursuing this dream.

 Fast forward 3 months later, I found myself working in a warehouse in the returns department.  I was listening to the radio where Steve Harvey is saying go after your dreams, surround yourself around the people who you want to be. They didn't necessarily have to be a celebrity but someone in that field.  I called every radio station in the Atlanta area asking could I be a board operator. With no experience & already graduating from college no opportunities were available. 

A few weeks later I heard Steve Harvey say "Get in on the Ground Floor with God & Watch You Get More" I was already working/volunteering in the media department at church & I asked could I work as a board operator.  After 5 weeks watching the board someone gets sick and my opportunity presented itself. After service a random guy comes up to our area & says, Sound was good. I told him I was trying to get in at the radio station but no one was hiring.  He referred me to the Program Director. I called this guy every day Mon-Fri for 2 months (he wouldn't take my calls) I eventually heard he was out on location on the radio & I showed up he was so shocked I found him that he told me to call him Monday morning. Well he didn't take my call that Monday but I eventually got him. 

I worked as an intern for 2 1/2 years before they said we have a position for you in promotions.  I got hired and from there I started making a name for myself. I just told myself I wanted to be memorable and not because of my height (which is 7ft) What was I going to do to make people remember me as an experience at every event, concert, party, or community function.  

After 2 years working I got the opportunity to become the Man on the Streets for Majic 107.5/97.5.  I was here, I was there, I was everywhere. While I am doing all of this for the radio station. I was told I had to be known for something.  I said OK, I would recap events through video. I would interview people and capture the moment and do recaps of the events I attended.  That was the start of www.tallboy.us I would go to major concerts award shows or anything that I thought was significant or compelling to watch.  I wanted to create "POSITIVE CONTENT" I then realized people wanted copies of the things I was doing so we created a CD duplication service for short orders.  

Well my mentor Si-Man Baby was always in the clubs entertaining people & I said hey I could do this. At first, no one would give me the microphone because no one knew who I was.  I sat back and watched all the things the emcees of these clubs I was attending were doing right & wrong and created my own routine.  Who would have ever thought that I would be the official host for the Bud-Light Atlanta Falcons Tailgates 2 years later. 

Well, fast forward a year later my supervisor in Promotions asks us every year to do a vision board and set performance goals.  After reading mine she strongly suggested I sit down with both program directors of Radio One. After creating a presentation of who I was, what I wanted, and what my goals were they said they would try me out on air.  A year later they said Here is your time slot don't screw up this station.  I had no experience and I was on the radio in the #9 market in the USA. Who would have ever thought a kid who grew up in the Carver Homes Projects would have accomplished this goal.      

What did you want to be when you were a child/ teenager?
I wanted to work for the Secret Service but because of my height, everyone pushed basketball in front of me.  It was cool, I thought I would play in the NBA.  I remember the day Majic Johnson made the announcement he was diagnosed with HIV. I was in seventh grade at Barker Jr High in Michigan City Indiana. I said I wanted to go to his school and play ball there and I am going to play ball overseas. Fast forward my sophomore year in high school, I moved with my father and he lived in Lansing Michigan and had just moved in the school district that Earvin Majic Johnson attended. 

Are doing your dream job? 
Yes, I am and I wake up loving what I do.  The only misconception is people think you make a lot of money & YOU DON'T. There are people that work in the service industry that make more money than me and it frustrating at times but hey I rather love what I do and struggle than be financially comfortable dreading going to work.

What do you like MOST about what you do? What do you like the LEAST? 
The two best things I love about my job is that I get to entertain people. People are so stressed out over small things and when they see me at an event, party, or function my job is to get you to bounce to the right, bounce to the left and SMILE and if I did a great job you will SCREAM.  Secondly, I get to talk to people who people dream of just being in there presence. I am like I cant believe you are so goo goo, they are regular people.  

What do I like the least is people who work in this industry who think they are all of that or won't pass the knowledge down to a young person getting into the business.  They feel threatened that a young personality is going to take there spot.  What's meant for you is meant for you.  The politics is also another thing.  You have to wait your turn for the opportunity.  If I am hungry and a go-getter don't hold me back. Some folks wait on opportunity, Some folks go get opportunity

Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years? 
LOL, I have to see where I am going to be tomorrow.  Seriously, I would like to be a household name in my city of Atlanta

I grew up in Atlanta listening to Ryan Cameron at night, Mike & Carol in the morning My mom made me listen to Si-Man & Young Blood which at the time I hated that kind of music they were playing but now I breathe it. I saw how they became staples in the community and I would like to be able to do the same thing.  

Are you happy with where you are in life? 
Yes & No I am happy with where I am in life, Overall I am happy because I look at where I came from. A kid moving around a lot, A new school every year to graduating from college on a basketball scholarship to playing professional basketball abroad as well here in the states to now doing the next phase of my life.  So for that I am living life and enjoying it. 

I say no because financially we all have goals and dreams and I am not there yet and I think that has held me up into creating a personal life with a significant other or family.  We are taught as men to be bread winners and I want to know I can provide for my family and right now although I hold my own I am not there to tell someone I am taking seriously don't worry about it "I GOT IT".  I have a dream, a plan, and an end goal but because I have not arrived I am hesitant to go to the next level with my personal life. 

What more do you want to do with your life?
I want to be able to travel more internationally, attend more conferences & events that are of my interest. Lastly, I have a great relationship with God but to have an even better one.


What drives/motivates you?
What drives me, believe it or not; people who don't believe in me or think I can't do something. I love the look on someone’s face when I accomplished the goal that I set out for myself due to someone else's disbelief.  It's not to rub it in there face but to say NEVER under estimate anyone. If that person sees it assist or encourage them to "Make It Happen" or don't say anything at all.

What else do you do?
 Although I have no desire to play basketball ever again I pass my knowledge do to kids who are pursuing that career field.  I do career days which I encourage everyone who reads this story to call a school, any school and ask to speak at a career day.  Seriously, Don't think your life story isn't important.  You may potentially be the difference to make a child go into whatever it is you do. I seriously thought my life didn't matter at a career day I attended with my mentor Si-Man. After he spoke, the kids were like who are you? I was the intern at the radio station with no job, no money and felt like how am I going to get this bill paid by Friday.

When I finished speaking all the kids in the room asked for my autograph.  Who would have ever thought I of all people would have connected with those kids.  So please if you take anything away from my story...Promise you will speak to a school, youth detention, or even a recreation center. You never know they may be your boss one day.  REAL TALK

What is your advice to those who are seeking employment and have no hope?
Be persistent, consistent, make yourself memorable. Opportunities happen if YOU just show up. Volunteer with organizations it could be big or small.  I learned sometimes me just helping at an event I will be talking or working with the management of a company who came out to support the same cause I came out to support.  They get to see me and the person who I am.  Oh Yeah, The most important of them all...Be careful what you post on social media. When I say REAL TALK.  I Google people, I go to Facebook, & Instagram and I see what you post. It lets me know whether or not I want to associate myself with you.  So, if I do it trust believe others do it as well.   

Feature #99: Me'Chele Daves, Freelance Makeup Artist...


Name: Me'Chele Daves 

Current Job Position Title:  Freelance Makeup Artist/ Hair Extension Specialist

Company Name:  Prettiest Problem 

Contact Information:
prettyprblm@gmail.com / @MsTrudy (Instagram) / @PrettiestPrblm (Twitter) /
 @prettiestprblm (IG); www.styleseat.com/prettiestproblem 

Special skills:
I specialize in makeup application, education and installing hair extensions.

Describe your job story:
I've always had a passion for beauty. I remember one birthday my mother bought me a professional hair kit that included a real mannequin head and a stylist box full of combs, brushes, rollers and other hair styling supplies. Ever since then, I was hooked. I used to do elaborate hairstyles and take pictures of my work. When I was in middle school and high school, I worked as a salon assistant in Brooklyn, NY. When I went away to college, my best friend used to let me install her weaves. I became really good at it and I decided to start charging people to do it. One of my best friends introduced me to the world of YouTube and I began watching makeup tutorials. I instantly became obsessed. That hobby grew from doing my own makeup, to actually doing makeup on others. I became a lot more fascinated with makeup. I see how many women have a hard time with simple beauty tricks. I decided to start building my brand with my Twitter name which is Prettiest Problem which also fit my theme. Being "pretty" shouldn't be a problem.

What did you want to be when you were a child/ teenager?  
When I was a child I wanted to deliver babies. I just loved babies so much I thought there could be nothing greater than to bring them into this world. I realized that was not my calling when I found out that I couldn't stand the sight of blood. I'd literally get lightheaded and dizzy at the sight. In high school, I majored in bookkeeping and went on to get a degree in finance in college. I was good with math and numbers, so I figured I'd go into something having to do with money. 

Are you doing your dream job?
I am doing my dream job. In the daytime I go to work in accounting, however I realized that I am not as passionate about it. I realized how much I loved doing makeup in my spare time and I am currently building my brand around the beauty culture outside of my 9-5. Being an entrepreneur and doing what I love is my dream job. I'm taking small steps in that direction so I would consider myself to be doing my dream job.

What do you like MOST about what you do?
I LOVE seeing the finished product of what I've done. Many times when I go out, I will volunteer to do a friend's makeup just so I can watch how it enhances her look and attitude. I'll secretly watch her all night just to see the extra confidence a new look brings. That makes me happy.

What do you like the LEAST?
Building a business on your own tends to consume a lot of time. Add that with a regular 9-5 and it can take you from your family quite a bit.

Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years? I see myself as a small business owner in the beauty industry. I'd love to be doing freelance makeup for photoshoots, events, and maybe some television/movies. I was just able to offer my first live, interactive makeup tutorial showing the everyday woman different techniques to apply makeup and I really felt comfortable doing that. I could see myself developing that concept and making it mobile. I'd also love to have my own line of hair extensions as well as accessory line with my branding. I'd like to be a step further to building my own mini empire.

Are you happy with where you are in life?
I'm happy with my life, but I'm not content. I want more for my family and I know we can have it. I have a passion and I think pairing that with a business idea is a perfect start to build the recipe for success. Having supportive people in your corner also helps with the whole vision.

What more do you want to do with your life?
I want more for my family. I want to be proud of my accomplishments. I want to look back and be shocked at what I was able to do and where I came from. I want to be able to make a difference in the lives of those I love as well as people I may only meet once in life. On another note, I'd like to experience traveling with my family. I want my children to see that the world is much bigger than what is in this city and state. There is so much more to life than what we are exposed to on a daily basis.

What drives/motivates you?
Knowing that things can get done and growth is possible motivates me. Seeing people's reaction to their new look motivates me to want to do it again and again. My family motivates me to drive harder and want more.

What else do you do?
I'm a mom, which is a full time job in itself. I'm also employed full-time performing accounting functions for a news and entertainment company in Atlanta.

What is your advice to those who are seeking employment and have no hope? Sometimes seeking employment starts with you. This world is not set up to hand us anything. That just doesn't work. You have to find something and make it your own. Start small. Don't be afraid to take baby steps. When in doubt, do for self! 





                                                           

Feature #18: Eboni Walker, Coordinator...


Name: Eboni Walker 

Current Job Position Title: Georgia Army National Guard (GANG) Yellow Ribbon Reintegration Program (YRRP) Coordinator & OIC for the state of Georgia  

Company Name: Georgia Army National Guard
Contact Information: 
eboni.n.walker.mil@mail.mil - 404.308.0457 (work info)

Special skills: Event coordinating & planning, resilience training, public speaking 

Describe your job story:
I am in the Natl. Guard and I was out of work for a few months. I received
a phone call about attending a one (1) week paid training session and of course i went since it was paying. While i was there i did a major amount of net working and was able to receive a two month temp position. After working hard in my two month temp position about a week before my last day the brought me in and said the noticed how well I had worked in mu position and offered me the opportunity to run the YR Program for the state of Georgia

What did you want to be when you were a child/ teenager?
As a child I had this dream of being a designer. I never actually saw myself in the military. But the older i got the more i realized i had a passion for a few other things versus the design field. 

Are doing your dream job?
No im not doing my dream job but I am helping people and that is what I love. 

What do you like MOST about what you do? What do you like the LEAST?
What I like the most is the immediate positive affect that my program has on service members their families and friends. We bring them together to have an opportunity to discuss and/or resolve issues that could arise before or after deployment. What I like the least is the effect that government funding has on the program. If the funds are not there then we are not able to provide the level of assistance that we would like to. 

Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
In the next five years I see myself owning my own Corporate Event Panning business obtaining my license to minister and sharing the many gifts that God has placed inside of me with others. 

Are you happy with where you are in life? Yes I am happy but never comfortable. I always have this expectation that God is going to do something else.

What more do you want to do with your life?
I definitely want to have children and take more time to mentor young women who may not be sure what they want to do. Just help give them a little guidance  

What drives/motivates you?
God is my biggest motivator. The gifts He has given me I feel i just cant let them go to waste. I want to leave a mark in this world for my future children and my family to be proud of. 

What else do you do?
I also sing with a gospel group have a home based business and i really enjoy cooking!

What is your advice to those who are seeking employment and have no hope?
I advice is as your seeking employment don't forget about the gifts that God has already placed with in you. There is something that you do that the worlds needs and you can create your own income with that gift. Never count yourself out!